i'm trying to collect happy thoughts

i've been very negative lately and so i'm trying to think more positively. my poor mom, officemate and matron of honor have been dealing with the pity life-is-so-hard-for-carla-let's-all-cry parties. i'm going to try to stop. i have a great life and will have a better one once i move to FL and get hitched!

so, anyway, if you have any suggestions for thinking happy, let me know!

my current strategy: gratitude journal. it's...day two and i haven't seen any immediate results, but i'm going to stick with it. let's go gratitude!!!!